A woman arrived at a party and while scanning the guests, spotted an attractive man standing alone.               
 
She approached him, smiled and said, "Hello. My name is Carmen." 

"That's a beautiful name," he replied. "Is it a family name?"

"No," she replied. "As a matter of fact I gave it to myself.  It represents the things that I enjoy the most - cars  and men.  Therefore, I chose "Carmen. What's your name?"
 
He answered "B.J. Titsengolf."